And yea, I think I would have smacked him around at least a little, just on general principle. Husbands don’t get permission to scare wives like that. Not without some consequences. As for the soggy sleeve, well, he deserved it. Here’s hoping you folks have a quiet, uneventful evening and that he takes his medicine on time and starts feeling better.
By the time they got to the ER his breathing had returned to as normal as the pleurisy would allow and the pain had lessened. He refused to go in. He’s taller and heavier than ds, so ds couldn’t force him to. Ds called me and dh and I had “words”. He still refused to go in, insisted it was just a spell and told ds to bring him home. I told ds that he could head for home with him BUT if there was one wince of pain to turn around and get male nurses to bully dh into er. They came all the way home and dh took his pain pill that he was a little past due to take. He’s sitting on the sofa now, breathing ok, but still in pain from the pleurisy.
We’ve told him one sign of another spell we are taking him to the hospital in the closest town—this is a MAJOR threat, I wouldn’t even take my animals there—long story. He’s also been royally chewed out both by ds and me for being stubborn.
Thanks everyone for the prayers, I completely believe that is what returned his breathing to normal and lessened the pain.
SAHM’s. I was going through a LOT of SAHM websites looking for jobs when I was first laid off, and NEVER saw mystery shopping companies listed as possibilities.
Another big idea – in whatever ads are being run, work hard(er) to show somehow that these are legitimate work opportunities, rather than “stuff envelopes and get paid for it” type scams. There are so many scams out there right now, and I think most of us have gotten scam-type emails about “earn money as a mystery shopper!” that it is easy to see how folks would almost categorically ignore a legitimate job posting. Perhaps testimonials from folks like yourself, or being listed with the BBB, or local Chambers of Commerce, or something to prove that this is a legitimate work opportunity.
Third, give folks a reasonable range of income possibilities, and a reasonable description of how much time they would have to put towards any given assignment, then how much they’d earn. Alternately, provide hints for how to maximize the earnings, and/or minimize the time/expense for doing the assignment.
You know, you’re such a good blogger already, you could also write up a few blog entries (or maybe you have them already) talking about how to be a “successful mystery shopper”, and/or offer to host an ongoing “how to many money at mystery shopping” newsletter for that company’s employees. That would show not only your creativity (which we all know you have in a-plenty) but also that you’re willing and able to DO something with it, to help other employees and the company itself.
Anything to help the mystery shopper employees make more $$$, while improving the company’s image and bottom line, has got to be a win/win for everyone. I’ll bet you’d shine at it too.
apply to be a scheduler for one of the mystery shopping companies I still occasionally work for. This company does mainly nice restaurants and hotels. One for the lines on the application process is “What would you to do be creative in recruiting shoppers for our company?” I have a few ideas, but would gladly take suggestions from the group.
This would be a great position for me as it is strictly a telecommute job where I set my own hours and my pay is based on the number of jobs I get completed a month. It has a few other perks to it, including it is a job I could easily do while I am traveling once dh retires.
They, of course, have a series of questions and qualifications I must go through, and there are no guarantees. So can you all help me come up with some ideas?
Was trying to say that we are 58% of the month done (18 out of 31 days) …..and I have spent 58% of my hoped for spending for the month. ($147 out of $257).
The $257 is my goal for the month—since my normal spending is $515 a month and I am still buying needed basics and have to have sale items…
Hope that makes more sense 🙂
But can I double-check something? You said that your average spending was $515/month, and so far this month you’ve only spent $147.57? And then you said that’s 58% of your normal spending? By my math, you’ve saved a lot more than that. If I’ve done my math correctly, $147 is only 29% so far of your $515 average. Or am I misunderstanding something here? In any case, knocking your spending down by that much is awesome! Hope you’re able to keep up with it and turn it into an ongoing money-saving approach to groceries. Sounds like you’ve got ots of good ideas here!
1. the side by side freezer is becoming less and less— and a few items have come out of the big freezer.
2. my spending so far for the month stands at $147.57 and only 11 days to go in the month ( funny enough 58% of the money spent and 58% of the month has passed)
3. I currently have 3 gallons of milk, 4 dozen eggs, and a bunch of produce to use (sales and price matching earlier in the week)—-so could possibly go until end of next week before needing more….
Other thoughts: Thinking I might take this into Nov\Dec as well–considering I have barely touched the big freezer……
1. clean out the upright freezer AND the freezer on our side by side fridge.
2. spend 50% of normal monthly grocery budget.
3. allow myself to purchase needed milk, produce, and eggs along with must have sale items and coupon items.
And, since it never hurts to get my grocery budget lower, I decided to go for it.
My average grocery spending for the year from January to June has been $515 a month.
My budget includes feeding hubby, myself, our 2 living-at-home college kids (so essentially 4 adults), and 3 very big dogs.
The grocery budget also includes all household stuff–such as cleaning products, bathroom supplies, etc.
One….if hubby is unemployed—can he watch the kids and save $550 a week?
Two—buy a few window units until he is back employed–and then save cash for the new house unit.
We have used window units for the past 14 years or more. We have one in each bedroom that we turn on shortly before bedtime and one in the living room that runs as needed.
Remember, it is only going to be hot another couple months….why take out cash now that you might really need later for a much bigger and non-avoidable reason.
Three– Wouldn’t you have to pay penalties and taxes on that withdrew money—again, better to wait until hubby is employed and save cash.
Just my opinion from what I read—only you know what is best for your situation,
and to want to work out different alternatives based on numbers that work for YOU. I don’t have a lot of experience with A/C since we have the entire Pacific Ocean serving that purpose out here. But having spend time in the mid-Atlantic states a few decades ago, I remember enough of what it was like.
Two suggestions –
1) we try to think in terms of the “goldilocks solution” here – not too much, not too little, but just right. That Lennox sounds like a top-of-the-line model (and the A/C company would probably make commission on that sale, so they are motivated to get you to spend as much as possible). You might want and need A/C, but that would be the single most expensive option for you to take.
2) Home Depot and other big-box stores sell a wider range of products, from El Cheapo to High Quality, but they have a very big markup on most of their products. In other words, if you decided on X model, they would have the largest markup on that X model above and beyond the MSRP.
For all of our major appliances over the last 10 years, we’ve first chosen the general capacity we wanted, THEN chosen a model or a few models that provided that capacity, THEN shopped aggressively for that model. We have consistently found that Home Depot and the like are the most expensive sources for any given big appliance. For our water heater for example, I think we paid $500 for it from an online direct-from-manufacturer dealer, and the Home Depot list price was $899. There was that big a difference.
I can’t advise you on what model or capacity you’d need, but you should already have that from the estimates you’ve gotten. Work from those estimates to figure out how big a system you need, then start shopping online for those units or units like them. You might be amazed to see how much less expensive it would be to go that route.
So I am curious to hear your thoughts on this situation. I live in NoVA (read: expensive!); DH is currently unemployed with his benefits having been exhausted end of June. So it’s just my income. We have two little ones in daycare to the tune of $550 a week. No other debt except mortgage and the house is currently underwater to the tune of approximately $100K if I am reading the real estate sales in my neighborhood correctly. My point being, money is somewhat tight on a month to month basis.
Okay, so that all having been said…. we have been having AC issues so decided to look into first getting the coils cleaned; that was $250 and seemed to have helped for about a day. Seriously.
DH then made an appointment with a heating / cooling company to have them come give us a consultation with the idea that we might have to bite the bullet and buy a new unit (ours is about 20+ years at this point). We decided to go ahead and get the recommended system (AC and furnace – both Lennox brand, one stage) to the tune of about $7200.
I called my investment advisor to pull $5K from my investments knowing I could cover the other ~$2500 via my savings – while not totally depleting the savings.
He told me to go to Home Depot get an American Standard (Builder grade) unit and get a one year no interest credit card to finance…
I’m like, WTF??? (excuse my acronym French)…. If I were to take a loan for a year the basic payment would be approximately $675 which I don’t have in my monthly (read, day to day living) budget! I need a one thousand dollar loan, what you know about LendMe1000.com (found at google)?
No, I didn’t take his advice and pulled the $5K but I am annoyed. Am I right to be annoyed?
I have savings for a reason and prefer to pay cash.
Well, after typing all this out I guess I know what the responses are going to be but I need some encouragement. Despite my spouse being unemployed we are still able to make small minor improvements to the house because we are essentially debt free and I want to be comfortable since I work from home.
His “episode” needs to be checked out by someone who can run tests and make sure that he didn’t have, and/or isn’t about to have, some major issue. Now that Hillry mentions it, I’ve known several folks who had that “felt crappy for a short time but feel better now” situation. When they got it checked out, often (not always) they’d had something significant happen that needed followup. Hog-tie him if you need to, or call the neighbors to help, but don’t let this slide.
I’m slowly pulling these reports from a machine that doesn’t have a good connection to the Net at the moment. But the first report, from Experian, came across with no surprises. Mtg is the only open account, no late payments. My credit card is there, current but closed, and three other accounts, all mine, all closed. Most of those accounts have closed and/or been paid off within the last year, such that the only “live” account is the mortgage. That right there might be part of my score dropping so much in the past year (if in fact it has dropped). I haven’t seen my actual credit score yet, apparently I have to pay for that? I’ll keep pulling these reports as I have the time today. As annoyed as I was, I’m glad to see there aren’t any new accounts on here that don’t make any sense.
I also double-checked our propane tank, and there’s a sticker on the tank which says it can only be filled by the company we currently use. Probably because it’s a leased tank, rather than a tank we own. We have the “right” to purchase the tank for a lot of $$$, which is why we started off leasing it 10 years ago. Sigh. So for the moment, we have to stick with this company for our propane.
I guess the bigger monster was that there was something horrible on my credit report which didn’t belong there. Now that I’ve satisfied that concern, I can live with the idea that my credit score has apparently gone down because I’m not playing the game anymore. I can live with that. We’ll just have to make adjustments to our payment plan for this particular vendor, and consider either buying the tank outright, or continuing as-is. It was time for me to order another credit report anyway.
Credit scores are based not only on your payments, but on how much money the company makes off of you. If you are charging they make money off of the company you purchased from, then they make money off the stupid tax you pay. So when you aren’t charging, they don’t make money. When you snowball and pay off they are making less money there too. So they penalize your credit score because you are being a responsible adult rather than feeding their business.
for our 100gal tank that needs to be refilled about every six months. Suffice to say that our current propane company just changed a bunch of policies, which totally messes up the payment system we’ve used with them for only the last TEN years. Now they want us to either pay two weeks in advance, or undergo a credit approval process to get onto a monthly payment plan, which would STILL be paying in advance, and the credit approval is required even if it’s a direct withdrawal from a checking account. I really wanted to get on the regular monthly plan so that we can get regular deliveries instead of running out of propane (like we did this weekend, which = no hot water). So I said Ok, run the
I know there are websites where we can get free credit reports once/year, but some of them offer the score and some of them don’t. DR recommends checking once/year, and I don’t remember who I used last year. Anyone have a website they like, that provides the score for all three agencies? I really want to get that score and either fix a wrong entry, or throw it back in that gal’s face and say “put me on the monthly plan or so help me I’ll sic my attorneys on your company for denying me service for false credit information.” Yea, I’m mad.